Self Confidence Booster #1- Self Reliance

admin ♦ October 22, 2011 ♦ Leave Your Comment

Self Confidence is impossible until we have a certain level of self reliance. This self reliance is based on an amazing field of potential that even those of us who seem to be losers have hidden deep within. We are extremely capable in potential. We simply have not developed the skill, yet.

Tapping this self reliance takes more than believing that you are capable. It is having the courage to listen to your own inner guidance system to determine what you really want. It is unfortunate that so many of us have been fishing all our lives and find out that its not really fish that we want.

Many of us are held back from following a new and different coarse in life because we determine that roadblocks mean that we are on the wrong path. When more than likely, it means to make a coarse correction.

I have made this great mistake many times. The mistake of believing that others are smarter than I am when faced with a problem.

Maybe the problem is that we need to raise money for our business. So we ask our family what to do. They tell us to get a real job. Asking family for advice is cheap or even free and unless the person is qualified to give the advice, it is like going to the plumber to get your teeth fixed.

See things as they really are and make appropriate choices based on inner hints and advice that costs something. These choices will free you from worry and build your self confidence.

When you allow someone to make a decision for you when you are capable of making that decision yourself, you are destroying the self reliance that we are here to build. Make your own decisions. The results will vary but you are bigger than any result. Its always about the process not the result.

“Life is not easy for any of us.
But what of that?
We must have perseverance and above all confidence in ourselves.
We must believe that we are gifted for something, and this thing at whatever cost, must be attained”. Marie Curie

Self reliance is developed incrementally through developing skills. This is a basic but very good skill to begin developing.

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